Christmas Shopping for Your Boyfriend

It can be a difficult task, shopping for anyone during the holidays. With family, it's easy to substitute a lack of creativity (or knowledge of the person's preferences) with something typical, like a new movie or a fleece blanket, but we all want to be a bit more personal when shopping for our significant other. Following just a few simple tips, shopping for that special someone can become a breeze this holiday season!

1. Make a list of his hardware. If I know what game systems my boyfriend owns, and make note of the ones he plays most often, I know I can buy him a video game he'd most likely appreciate. For instance, my boyfriend plays Super Nintendo a lot. I've taken a peek in his video game cupboard, and made a list of the games he has. The only step left with this gift is to find a game that matches the genre of the games he seems to like, and make sure it's not one of those he already owns. Piece of cake!

2. Walk with him while shopping. I know it's pretty easy for me to wander off in the mall when my boyfriend starts to eyeball the Science Fiction section in the book store, but fine observation skills pay off. Even though I know a lot about my guy, there are a lot of specifics that I can't always keep up with. When I hang out with him in the stores, I can make a lot of mental notes about what he's interested in but not splurging on. I mean, hey, if I don't buy him that Super Mario tee shirt or Season 2 of House, who will? I can clearly see, after stopping at those items and then moving on 5 times, that he wants them but won't buy them himself.

3. What are his hobbies? A lot can come out of the hobbies a guy spends his time on. If he likes X-Box live, he might appreciate a renewal to his subscription. If he plays disc golf, some new high-quality discs might be the perfect gift. If he does graphic art and design in his free time, there may be some accessories that would make this hobby more fluid for him, like a graphic tablet for drawing graphics. Everyone spends their free time doing something, so focusing on what he likes is almost always a sure thing. It seems like a no-brainer, but it's surprising how many people overlook the simple day-to-day activities their significant other takes pleasure in.

4. Size is everything! A girl can use a guy's sizes to her advantage much more easily the other way around. We girls have a lot of curves and specifics about our bodies, but men are pretty cut and dry when it comes to the size of their clothes. Sometimes there's a cut or design a guy isn't a fan of, but it's usually pretty easy to pick up on a person's taste in clothes when spending a lot of time around them. Knowing my boyfriend's sizes is very reassuring: if all else fails, I can buy him a sweatshirt or a new pair of shoes. Just don't go for socks underwear - as personal as gifts like these can be, most people want something a little more thoughtful than the "necessities" they got from their mother when they were young.

5. Add to his collection. A guy who collects things can be either very easy or very hard to shop for. If his collection is on display or accessible, then it shouldn't be very hard to find something for his collection that he hasn't acquired yet. If he has his prized collection put away, this may not be the route to go - nothing is more disappointing at Christmas time than hearing "I already have this." When adding to his collection is a practical option, it's a great idea. People collect things for a reason: they really want these items. If he collects X-Men action figures, find one that he doesn't have already. If he collects a certain series of TV on DVD, buy the missing season or final season to his collection. Something like this can show a person cares enough to really look for the perfect gift.

Now, in no time, your closet will be full of great presents hidden under blankets for your special guy to unwrap!

Fishing: A Cheap Alternative to Expensive Family Vacations

Each year, a large number of families take a vacation. Many vacations last a period of days, but not everyone is able to afford long vacations. Despite not being able to afford an expensive family vacation, there are many parents who wish to give their child a memorable experience. What many individuals do not realize is that they could have a fun mini-vacation right in their backyard, at the local pond, or a nearby river.

If you haven't already guessed, that family activity is fishing. Many parents make the mistake of assuming that their children or other family members would not enjoy fishing. Right away fishing may not seem like the greatest idea, but it can be. Most adults, teenagers, and young children enjoy fishing once they try it for the first time.

If you are interested in having a family fishing adventure, the first thing you want to do is determine if you will need a license. Similar to hunting licenses, many states require that all fishers obtain a fishing license. You can easily determine whether or not you need a license by containing your local town or city offices. Don't worry if you do need one because most fishing licenses are easily affordable.

Your next step will be to make sure everyone has a fishing pole. If you do not already have fishing poles, they can be purchased from a wide variety of different locations. Fishing poles are sold at most sporting good stores or traditional department stores. It is even possible to find smaller fishing poles for younger children.

After you have found your old fishing poles or purchased new ones you will have to find a place to fish. This is the most difficult part for many families, but you should have a number of different options. If you live in a small town or city it is likely that you will have a number of streams, rivers, ponds, or lakes in the area. Many towns have a public fishing area where all residents can safely fish for free.

If you are unable to find a free public fishing area you will have to find somewhere else to fish at. Before going onto private property you must ask permission first. This could prevent complications from arising with the authorities or a property owner. If politely asked, a large number of property owners may allow you and your family to fish on their land. You may also be lucky and have access to fishing waters on your own property or on the property of a relative.

Once you have found a place for you and your family to fish at you can begin having fun. You may be surprised how much you and your family enjoy the experience. Fishing is not just limited to sports lovers or those who love the outdoors. Just about anyone can have fun fishing for days or even just a few hours.

Christmas Activities and Crafts are Fun for the Family!

Christmas only comes once a year, so why not turn it into a memorable event your whole family will cherish. There are a number of things you can do with your family to make this year's Christmas celebration a memorable one!

First, put up the Christmas tree. Grab the tree from storage and assemble it together as a family. Alternatively, if you prefer a real tree, load the family in the car and begin your search for the most beautiful tree you can find.

Once you have your tree set up, and you've placed the lights and rope on the tree, pull out the box of ornaments and let the kids start hanging them on the tree. As you go through the ornaments, tell a story about each one. For example, if you have a homemade ornament tell which child made it, when they made it and how old they were. You'll all enjoy the memories from the stories that each ornament may hold. While trimming your tree, pop a Christmas CD into the stereo and sing along. This will keep everyone in the Christmas spirit!

After decorating the tree, mix up a batch of Christmas cookies together. Then, when the cookies are done and ready to eat, enjoy them around the Christmas tree. You can even sit down around the tree and share Christmas stories with one another; this makes for great Christmas fun!

Load into the family car and take a trip to the movie store. Once there, make it known that the only movies everyone can pick out is Christmas movies. Christmas movies at home with the family will keep you in good sprits, and you'll hardly be able to wait for Christmas to arrive. Don't forget to pop-up some popcorn to enjoy during movie time! Furthermore, a delicious cup of hot coco will go well with movie time too!
Christmas fun isn't complete without Christmas crafts! So, enjoy more time with your family by decorating your home. Start your Christmas fun arts and crafts time by making paper chains and hanging them around the house, or wrapping them around the Christmas tree. A paper chain is a decoration that even the smallest children can make. To begin, gather up red and green construction paper. Next, cut the paper into strips. (Adults, you can cut the paper into strips so the children don't cut themselves.) As you're cutting the paper have the children make one strip into the shape of a circle, then using a glue stick, have them glue the two ends together to hold the circular shape. Using another strip of paper (this time use the other color) make another circle, only this time overlap the second circle with the first. Repeat the process -- alternating between colors -- until the chain is the length you want it to be. You can make as many paper chains as you like so you can decorate many areas of your home and your tree too.

You could also use an old holiday tradition by stringing popcorn to use as garland. Using a tapestry needle, string the popcorn onto thin string (dental floss, strong thread, or etc.). Not only will you and the kids enjoy stringing popcorn, but you'll also have a ball as you eat the popcorn along the way. Just be sure to pop enough popcorn to string and enough to eat.

What decoration does everyone need at Christmas time? You guessed it, a Christmas wreath. This year you can make your wreath special by making your own from a wire coat hanger. First, shape the hanger into a circle (leave the hook untouched, you will need it later for hanging the wreath). Second, gather approximately 200 sandwich bags (not the Ziploc kind), and then using scissors, cut down the sides of the bags. Or, for the younger kids, if they're real careful they can tear, along the seams, down the sides of the bag. Third, tie the sandwich bags around the circle until it's full -- pushing the bags together as you go along. Once the circle is full, glue a big red bow at the top (centered). If desired, you can also glue small embellishments onto the wreath. Once finished, hang it, and you'll have a decoration that will last for years.

Finally, you'll need some ornaments for the Christmas tree. Start with lids from canning jars. Wrap red, green, or any color yarn you desire around the entire lid. Cut a small piece of yarn and tie it around the top of the lid for hanging on the tree. For the finishing touch, decorate your wreath ornaments by gluing small embellishments onto the wreath.

Christmas fun doesn't just have to take place indoors... it can also take place outdoors. An activity my family and I make an annual tradition is driving around town looking at Christmas lights. Adults and kids will love it!

During the daytime hours, gather all your outdoor directions and extra Christmas lights. Then brainstorm outdoor decorating ideas together and put your plans into action! By decorating the outside of your home, you'll provide other families with Christmas lights to enjoy, and the entire activity will be Christmas fun for your family.
The entire family can enjoy all of the Christmas fun activities above, and what makes them even better is kids of any age group can participate. So gather your entire family, tell them it's time for some Christmas fun, and have a "holly jolly" goodtime!

Great Christmas Tradition for Parents of College Students

Going away to college is a special time in a young person’s life. They are learning new things, exploring new territory,molding their future and making traditions. The years I was away at college were some of the most memorable years of my life. My mom started a Christmas tradition with me (that she borrowed from my aunt), which made college even more special for me as a college student during the holiday season.

Many college students come home for Thanksgiving each year. This is a good time to refresh so they can return to college for the last couple weeks of the semester. The time between Thanksgiving and Christmas is a very stressful time for college students. The pressures of finals are upon college students. The excitement of Christmas is looming and college students may find themselves becoming homesick for the traditions of family and home. This wonderful tradition can help your college student enjoy that month and stay focused on their goals knowing that they’ll soon be home to enjoy family and the joy of Christmas.

Is your interest piqued? Are you ready to make a special tradition that will impact your college student's life forever?

It’s a Countdown to Christmas! It’s the same concept as the Advent calendar. The tradition works like this: each day your college student will have a gift to open in anticipation of Christmas and coming home for the holidays. This is so much fun for them to look forward to their daily gifts from home as they go through those last couple of weeks of the semester.

This is what you, as the parent needs to do in preparation of this new tradition.

1. Go out and buy a variety of small gifts for your college student. You’ll need about 25 gifts depending on when you want your college student to start opening. Some years my mom would give enough gifts to start the Monday right after Thanksgiving and other years my mom would have me start December 1st. The tradition was in the gifts not the start date.
2. Be sure to wrap the gifts (important for this tradition). It’s up to you if you want to number the gifts or just let your college student pick each day. My mom did both ways for me when I was a college student and they both were fun!

3. Put the gifts in a large box or basket so they are all together and ready. You could get a special basket to use each year, which would make it part of the tradition.

4. Get them to your college student in time. Either send the gifts back with your college student if they come home for Thanksgiving or plan to mail them in time for them to start after Thanksgiving (some college students don’t come home for Thanksgiving so this works as well).

Gift Ideas for the Countdown to Christmas tradition!

The gifts can be inexpensive (think Dollar Stores). If you’re on a tight budget be creative and spend $25 total on this tradition (this can be done with all of the Dollar Stores out there). The gifts can be a bit more expensive as well. Remember, it’s the thought and tradition that are most important. My mom always had an array of gifts varying in price. Here are some gift ideas to get you rolling if your creative juices aren’t flowing.

1. Christmas décor – Something to hang on their door. Christmas lights. Candles (though candles may not be allowed in dorms). Little knick-knack decorations are always fun and can be of Dollar Store quality, it’s the point of having some Christmas décor to bring on the Christmas cheer.

2.Gift Card - You know that college students are often short on money. A surprise gift card to a fast food restaurant or the local grocery store would be a welcome surprise!

3. Candy or Food – College Students are always grazing for something to nibble on. They will be so happy to find a gift of their favorite candy or Christmas cookies or whatever food you think will be appreciated! Be sure to include enough for them to share with their roommate or friends!

4. A new toothbrush or other necessities - College students are always running out of the bare essentials so surprise them with a new toothbrush. Better yet wrap up their favorite hair care product or a special soap.

5. New Socks or Underwear – Your college student will get a chuckle out of opening up a gift of socks or underwear. You can go really wild and buy some Christmas theme socks or panties or boxers! This is a fun gift and will be totally unexpected.

6. Nostalgic Gift – Think about when your college student was a little kid and buy something for them to remind them of years past. Matchbox cars or a Barbie doll would be cute ideas. Peruse the toy department and find a children’s gift that will make your college student smile! Play Doh or a Mini-Magna Doodle you’ll surely find something that will be fun for your child!

7. Book or Magazine – We know that college students are immersed in books and reading. Get them a fun book. Include their favorite magazine. A sentimental book will be treasured for years to come. Buy them a children’s Christmas book (if you think they’ll appreciate it).

This list should get your shopping juices flowing to make this Christmas tradition special for you and your college student! I used to call my mom each and every day (tradition in itself) to thank her and tell her what that day’s gift was. We have always been close but this is a treasured memory for us!

The Best Pants to Wear Hiking

Just like every other sport, it is important to wear the right type of clothing for the activity as it helps with the overall performance. Hiking pants is a very important part of your hiking equipment as it will help your overall performance. It helps prevent any serious scratches from branches, and helps keep you warm even in cold and wet weather. They also protect you from animals (especially mosquito bites).

Because hiking pants are very important, there are many different hiking pants available each with their own advantages and disadvantages that will suit their needs. It is important to find a pair of hiking pants that suits your needs the most. You should be able to choose from three different kinds of hiking pants - long hiking pants, short and long thermal hiking pants, and tight hiking pants.

Long hiking pants are most commonly found in shops nowadays. They have multiple functions and a three layer system. These hiking pants are not only breathable, but they are also water proof or water resistant and wind resistant. They will generally help keep you warm, and dry. This type of hiking pant is suitable for three seasons.

The short and long thermal hiking pants are the first layer that you are supposed to wear. This layer is responsible for keeping you dry, and absorbs all the sweat. Unlike the long hiking pants, they are not for keeping you safe and away from sharp branches. Short and long thermal pants are the most comfortable thermal pants you can wear. These thermal hiking pants come in different lengths; it all depends on which one is most suitable for you, and most comfortable for your hiking trip.

Last but not least, we have the tight hiking pants. Tight hiking pants have a moisture-extracting property. These hiking pants are normally worn as a first layer to help keep you dry, and absorb your sweat. There is one different feature in tight hiking pants that helps benefit many hikers. Tight hiking pants help prevent sore muscles, and will support key muscle groups.
Next time you go out for a hike, it is important to be prepared, and wear the right type of outfit. Go to an athlete store, and see which hiking pants are most suitable for you, and your hiking trail. The difference between wearing a suitable pair of hiking pants, and an unsuitable pair of hiking pants may be the difference of a good hiking trip from a bad one!

How to Buy the Proper Hiking Boots for a Comfortable Fit

So, you have a great frame pack that carries loads like a dream, your tent could withstand a month at the top of Everest, and your sleeping bag can be stuffed down to the size of a baseball and is right at home inside that technical marvel of a tent. Your boots...uh-oh, your boots are shot and you need to buy a new pair for that Rocky Mountain trek you planned this summer? Well you have some serious decisions to make, because absolutely no piece of equipment, barring anything that will keep you alive or more safe, excedes the importance of the right pair of hiking boots. Hiking one mile in a pair of poorly fitting, underperforming boots can be a miserable experience, never mind having to spend a week on the trail in them. Here is what to look for in fit, materials and functionality when shopping for those new hiking boots.

The most important factor in purchasing a new pair of hiking boots is proper fit. They could be a pair of $250 gore-tex and leather wonders, but if the fit is wrong, they might as well be a pair of rubber flip flops. A poorly fitted boot can lead to blisters, lost toe nails and strained muscles due to compensations in stride and form in hope of alleviating pain. Sitting at your pc reading this, it may be hard to visualize the severity of this, but these painful circumstances can end what would have been a great trip. It is crucial that your new hiking boots have plenty of room in the toe-box. This is the front portion of the boot, from the ball of your foot forward. There are two reasons for this. The first is stability on the trail. Your toes must be able to move freely of one another in order to do their job properly. By allowing your toes to spread out, your hiking boots will afford you better balance and agility on the trail. Remember, when hiking, you aren't simply ascending or descending smooth hills. You are traversing too, often on rocky, muddy or otherwise unstable ground.
The second reason you want plenty of room in the toe box of your hiking boots, is because you do not want your toes rubbing the front of the toe box. You can often feel this when you are descending a mountain. Your steps may be heavy and long, especially if you have significant weight on your back or if the trail is particularly steep. With everystep your toes are cramming against the front of your boot. On a serious hike, this can lead to blisters and lost toe nails. On a day hike, you may be able to suck-up the pain, get back to the trailhead and soak your sore toes for a couple days. On a multi-day hike, however, this obviously isn't an option. You are going to have to wake up early and keep the pace to make the next camp site by dark. A rule of thumb is that you want a half an inch of room between your longest toe and the front of the boot. When trying the boots on in the store, stomp down in a forward motion to insure your toes won't touch. Many better hiking stores have a ramp for you to trod down in order to test the fit. Make sure you take advantage of it.

So, what about the rest of the hiking boots fit? The rear section of the boot, from the ball of your foot back, should fit snuggly. You want to be able to take advantage of the stiff sole and, in some boots, the shank. This means your heal and ankle should be snuggly wrapped by the boot's upper and thus, kept firmly in place. Check to see that the top of your boot, where the laces end and are tied, doesn't dig into the front or back of your ankle when stepping up or down. Here again, the ramp will come in handy. Check for proper width and arch support. When the boot is tied snuggly, the lace eyelets shouldn't be too close. This indicates a poorly fitting upper and you may run into tightening problems if the boot stretches. Also, use your common sense, as even the best hiking boot salesperson will have a hard time interpreting your descriptions of what you are feeling. Remeber too, try on lots of different brands and sizes, all feet are different and shoe companies tend toward different fits. Wear your new hiking boots around the house for a number of days and if you aren't sure of the fit, return them.

Great, so if the shoe fits wear it, right? Well, that depends on where you are wearing it and what kind of weight your are bearing. Boots come in many different materials and are purpose built for different activities. They range from light weight day-hikers to glacier conquering trekkers. Will you need to attach a crampon? Will you be carrying a week's supply of gear? Will you be in a warm, dry climate; or wet and cold? The size, weight and materials used in making the hiking boot will all be indicators of what the boot is meant to do. Some boots have flexible soles, others are literally stiff as a board. In general, if you are going to be day hiking, with little weight on you back, on relatively smooth trails, a flexible sole will be fine. If you are going to be hiking with a heavily laden pack on unforgiving terrain, you will want a stiffer lug sole. This will provide you with better stabilty and put less strain on your feet as they come down on uneven surfaces.

The materials with which the upper is made are an important consideration. Believe it or not, leather boots will breathe better than nylon. If hiking in wet areas or in questionable weather, which is very often the case, you may opt for a boot with Gore-Tex for waterproofness. Though Gore-Tex is quite breathable and still very much the king of waterproof-breathable fabrics, it will cut down on the breathability of your boot. If you are going to be hiking in the desert or a hot environment, don't assume the hiking boot's breathability should be your first consideration. Instead, wear a synthetic or wool, moisure wicking sock. Don't grab the thinnest pair either. A thicker sock is often the better choice for desert travel. This brings us to another important factor when choosing your new boots; wear the socks you will be wearing whith your hiking boots. Never go hiking boot shopping in thin, cotton socks. Again, many better outdoor stores will have a basket of proper socks for trying on boots. However, if you have to, buy a pair of socks at the store. They are an often over looked, but integral part of your hiking boot's fit.

Few peices of gear wil serve you as well as a good pair of hiking boots. I have friends who have had their trusty pairs resoled two or three times. On the same token, few pieces of gear will smite you like a poorly fitting pair of boots. Remember, when you are on a long hiking trip, your boots are everything. If you take your time in the store, follow my advise and that of a knowledgeable sales person, and try your boots out in your house so as you can return them if need be, you should end up with a great new pair of hiking boots that will serve you for years to come.

Polo by Ralph Lauren Men's Iron Age Buckle Boots Product Review

The Polo by Ralph Lauren Men's Iron Age Buckle Boot is perfect footwear for cold weather. This is for exclusively for those people who are frontrunners of fashion. It is the in thing in campus and workplace. This may look massive but it is light on your feet. It protects the feet from the cold weather. I love to go around the country side and enjoy the rain. For long lack of a quality boots was detrimental in getting wet in rain. The regular leather shoes come off from the sole after three or four wash in rain. Now I can get soaked in rain without any fear of water getting inside my boots. I do not even bother to wear the socks inside.

This boot covers till the ankle and offers extra protection from rain. The workmanship is outstanding. This is crafted for optimum usage in chill weather. It is durable and lasts long. I am having the same pair for the past three seasons. It can withstand tough weather conditions. The resistance to wear and tear is high. There is probably nothing more that I can expect from a boots. This looks great. The Polo by Ralph Lauren Men's Iron Age Buckle Boot gives my feet a luxuriating feeling.

The most striking feature of this boot is that it is water resistant. Note that it is not water proof. I take pride in going out in rain and wearing my boots in any weather. I use it not only on rainy days but also on those days when I have work in my farm. The leather on the upper portion of the boots is so smooth. This looks classic and elegant. It is crafted with high quality leather. This synthetic leather has a natural gloss and shiny finish. When water droplets come in contact with this the boots look freshly polished. The combination of buckles and the laces make the Polo by Ralph Lauren Men's Iron Age Buckle Boot stylish and chic.

This goes well with the casual wear. I love to wear it along with denim. This fits well and is quite comfortable. The black and brown color combination is good. This boot definitely looks stunning. It is surely worth the price. The laces are made of leather and add value. The metallic buckle does not get rusted and has a sparkling sheen. It can be adjusted according to the individual feet size. The buckles facilitate in fastening the boots and keep it tight and give good fit.

Women Wearing Boots - What Signals Are You Giving Off?

This season's liveliest fashion development has been the boot. Many designs have been knee-high but mention thigh high boots to any guy and he will suddenly stop making sense.

It doesn't matter if he has Newsweek delivered to his home every morning, just drop the words "leather", "thigh" and "boots" in the same sentence and watch his eyes glaze over as his head fills with images of Jane Fonda in Barbarella or Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.

But it's not just the sight of leather. The quality of leg is important as Adam, 32, assures me. "If a woman has good legs," he says, "it doesn't matter what kind of boots she wears." Well, that's alright then.

"Boots are a difficult subject. I don't think they are a sexual signal. I hate seeing women in Doctor Martins and skirts, I think it looks really awful. And I hate knee-length boots with stiletto heels and if they're white, that's even worse." Key words, according to Adam, are "graceful" and "stylish". So those 16-eye Doc Martins are out, I guess.

Richard, 21, sees things a little differently. He has no objections to women in combat boots. "But," he says, "it depends on who's wearing them". According to Richard knee-high numbers can sometimes be "a bit naff" and can make a woman look like "a tart".

Ernest, 29, has a slightly different view. "Boots give off powerful signals," he says. "They are harsh looking things. Sometimes I see a woman wearing a pair of high boots and I think, 'Walk on me, walk on me!'" Yes, well, moving swiftly along.

And how does he like them? "Long and leather, right up to the thigh," says Ernest without a moment's hesitation.

But the sexual attraction of footwear is difficult for men to put into words. "I'm not a leg man," admits Ernest. "A woman can have small legs or big legs, but when she puts on a pair of boots, it gives the impression of quick sex. It also depends on what she's wearing and if a woman has a good shape, boots highlight that more."

Ben, 21, agrees. "If someone looks like the Incredible Hulk, wearing boots is not going to help," he says. "Boots are quite individual things, like hats - they are an expression."
This season's liveliest fashion development has been the boot. Many designs have been knee-high but mention thigh high boots to any guy and he will suddenly stop making sense.

It doesn't matter if he has Newsweek delivered to his home every morning, just drop the words "leather", "thigh" and "boots" in the same sentence and watch his eyes glaze over as his head fills with images of Jane Fonda in Barbarella or Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.

But it's not just the sight of leather. The quality of leg is important as Adam, 32, assures me. "If a woman has good legs," he says, "it doesn't matter what kind of boots she wears." Well, that's alright then.

"Boots are a difficult subject. I don't think they are a sexual signal. I hate seeing women in Doctor Martins and skirts, I think it looks really awful. And I hate knee-length boots with stiletto heels and if they're white, that's even worse." Key words, according to Adam, are "graceful" and "stylish". So those 16-eye Doc Martins are out, I guess.

Richard, 21, sees things a little differently. He has no objections to women in combat boots. "But," he says, "it depends on who's wearing them". According to Richard knee-high numbers can sometimes be "a bit naff" and can make a woman look like "a tart".

Ernest, 29, has a slightly different view. "Boots give off powerful signals," he says. "They are harsh looking things. Sometimes I see a woman wearing a pair of high boots and I think, 'Walk on me, walk on me!'" Yes, well, moving swiftly along.

And how does he like them? "Long and leather, right up to the thigh," says Ernest without a moment's hesitation.

But the sexual attraction of footwear is difficult for men to put into words. "I'm not a leg man," admits Ernest. "A woman can have small legs or big legs, but when she puts on a pair of boots, it gives the impression of quick sex. It also depends on what she's wearing and if a woman has a good shape, boots highlight that more."

Ben, 21, agrees. "If someone looks like the Incredible Hulk, wearing boots is not going to help," he says. "Boots are quite individual things, like hats - they are an expression."
But it wasn't until the 1960s that boots really came into their own when all the hip, young things started wearing "kinky" boots which were knee-length with pointed or squared-off toes. Then with the mini-skirt came the swashbuckling look with thigh-length boots worn in soft kid leather. And things have never been the same since even though during the 1970s, the peasant look came in and people took to wearing "Peruvian" boots. Ours is not to reason why.

In the early 1980s we had the cowboy boot which gave away to ankle high Pixie boots. Now thanks to the likes of Gucci and Prada, glamour is back and it looks like it's here to stay.

Nancy Sinatra may have told us that these boots were made for walkin' but I thought that the average Joe would be a sucker for stiletto heels - the higher, and more impractical the better. Not so, or not according to the men I spoke to. Only one admitted to having a penchant for pointy heels, but clumpy ones were a definite no-no all-round.

The word from the male corner then, is wear 'em high and in any colour as long as it's black.

Men's Accessories: Shoes

Footwear has always been a necessity for men, irrespective of the geography, the physical nature and climate of the region in which they may reside. However this gradual drift from being a pure necessity to an out and out accessory is truly marvelous. Gone are the days when men resorted to wearing the flat heeled shoes to work and slippers at home.

With the drastic styles and fashions in women's footwear, not to be left out, men have come up with plenty of their own. Some of the trendy shoes are as follows.

The slick shiny leather pair will never go out of vogue. What is most striking is its simplicity yet dignity. It is something that will suit any formal occasion provided it is well color coordinated. The shapes and styles have evolved over the years from pointed to the rounded fronts, but it yet remains a must have in any man's wardrobe. It goes well with any formal trouser and is a must for a well groomed suit.

The next one that comes to mind is the leather pair of boots. Originally from the cowboys, this accessory has made waves worldwide. From their dusty look to the high heeled ones these boots are every teenage boy's fantasy. They go very well with denims on. They can be further embellished with metal clippings on the sides or at the heels.

The most striking, comfortable and definitely most popular are the sneakers or sports shoes. With so many brands manufacturing them in all sorts of designs and types they are a rage with all age groups. The most striking aspect is their levels of comfort and it just seems to be getting better.

Technology is being applied in full force in this field equipping these shoes with air cushioning, automatic size adjustment and what not. These shoes can be used to work, though not on formals, as also for sports and other outdoor activities.

Another very popular accessory, not so much in style, but very comfortable are the floaters. Shaped like sandals but with very good grips they are very comfortable especially when moving around the backyard or at home.

Very popular among university students, a fair share can be seen on campus too. They can be got in a variety of colors too.

International Winter Holidays: Around the World in 10 Holidays

Most of us know that with winter creeping up on us, there are holidays coming up, too. Here in the United States, that typically means Christmas and New Year's Eve. But what about the rest of the world? There are many holidays that are observed this time of year from all over the globe, whether by different religions, cultures or countries.

Here are a few celebrations, both familiar and lesser known that I've come across*:

Chanukah (Hanukkah) —literally means "rededication"; the Jewish "Festival of Lights," celebrating the Jewish victory at the temple and the 8 days the lamp oil lasted when there was only enough for one day during the rededication of the temple. It begins at sundown on the 25th day of the month Kislev, on the Jewish calendar (in Nov./Dec.). Some common things seen during this celebration are the menorah, which has nine candles, one lit for each day and one to light with; latkes, or potato pancakes; dreidals, which are like spinning tops used for a game of betting; and sufganiyot, unshaped jelly donuts with no holes.

Chinese New Year— this observance is set by the Chinese calendar, which is based on lunar and solar movement. The festivities start with the first new moon of the new year and end on the full moon 15 days later. Each day observes a different theme. The 15th day is known as the Lantern Festival; this is a time of family reunion, celebration and thanksgiving, and religious ceremonies for ancestors, gods, and heaven and earth.
Kwanzaa—from matunda yakwanza, from the phrase "fist fruit." A seven day event, lasting from Dec. 26 to Jan. 1, honoring African American people, culture and history, where community, gathering and reflection are celebrated. This observance was created by Dr. Maulana Karenge in 1966 to celebrate the African American culture. Each evening, a family member lights candles in a special candle holder and there is a discussion of the 7 principles of Kwanzaa (unity, self-determination, collective work and responsibility, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity, and faith). On the 6th day family and friends eat a large feast and celebrate history, culture and the upcoming new year.

Ramadan—the 9th month of the Muslim calendar, which includes fasting during daylight hours each day (no food or drink) and small meals with family and friends in the evenings; there are also other restrictions. A time of worship and contemplation, concentrating on faith and spending less time on concerns of everyday life. The evening of the 27th day of the month, known as Laylat-al-Qadr (the Night of Power), is considered to be the time when Muhammad first received the revelation of the Holy Quran, and when God determines the course the world for the following year. When the fasting ends, there are three days of holiday, known as Id-al-Fitr (the Feast of Fast Breaking), with gift-giving and prayer, feasting, and sometimes fairs.

Shichi-Go-San--Japanese festival, literally "Seven-Five-Three." On Nov. 15 or the closest weekend; a celebration for girls 3 and 7 years old and boys 3 and 5 years old, evolved from designated milestones of childhood. The children dress in their best clothes—traditionally kimonos but often western clothing—and pray at shrines to ensure futures free of sickness and misfortune. They are given chitose-ame, or thousand-year candy, in long white paper bags covered with symbols of luck and longevity. This is the most auspicious day of the year according to the Chinese calendar, but it is not a national holiday, and is celebrated out of tradition.

Saint Lucia Day (luciadagen)—a Swedish holiday set on Dec. 13; considered the beginning of the holiday season and honoring St. Lucia , a virgin martyr. The story of Lucia consists of this saint going out in the early morning with food and drink for the poor; she was persecuted for being a Christian who wouldn't give up her faith to marry an unbeliever. This story is acted out in family homes, with the oldest daughter playing the "Lucia bride," bringing her parents a tray of sweet saffron buns and coffee. She wears a white gown with a red sash and a crown of greens, and her siblings will dress in white and follow her, carrying lit candles. This feast day marked the return of the sun.
Tet—Vietnamese new year; the start of the new year in the lunar calendar, between the last ten days of Jan. and mid-Feb. A festival after the harvest lasting three days, when everyone is nice and careful not to show anger or rudeness. Families try their best to get together during this time. On the family altar, joss sticks are lit several times a day, and offerings of food, fruit, water, flowers and betel are made for friendship, ancestors and children. Red envelopes containing money are given to children for a lucky year.

Boxing Day—celebrated in Britain , Canada , Australia and New Zealand . It falls on Dec. 26, which is also St. Stephen's Day in Britain . This holiday is of unknown origin, and possibly dates back to the middle ages. One explanation for the foundation of the holiday is that it was once customary for tradesmen (service people) to collect their Christmas boxes or gifts in return for good service throughout the year; also included giving money and gifts to the needy and charities. In England , because it is also St. Stephen's Day, it has become associated with horse-racing and hunting (and other sports).

Scotland does not celebrate Boxing Day, but makes up for it with Hogmanay, a huge festival of revelry on Dec. 31, much like our own New Year's Eve, though only celebrated on a large scale in recent years.

And of course, there is Christmas, which is celebrated by countless people around the world, usually as a Christian festival but also by many others. The word literally means "the feast of Christ," and is adapted from winter pagan festivals such as the winter solstice. The whole holiday as it is known in America is an amalgamation of numerous countries' traditions. Santa Claus was adapted from St. Nicholas (the name came from the Dutch Sinter Klaas), the image of Santa came from the famous poem by Clement Clarke Moore, "An Account of a Visit From Saint Nicholas," better known as the story Twas the Night Before Christmas. Christmas trees came from Germany (Queen Victoria and Prince Albert brought them into fashion); gift-giving became strong around the early 19th century.

Each culture celebrates with different traditions. We have great tradition here in the United States , but there is so much more going on in the fall and winter across the globe. By celebrating long-standing traditions or finding new ones, the colder months can be filled with lots of high spirits, and winter can seem less dull.

*Author's note: I don't celebrate most of these holidays myself—I apologize for any incorrect information I may have unintentionally included.

How to Choose Clothes for Overweight Girls

Don't choose shapeless baggy clothes; sweatpants are for exercise, not for school. They are not flattering.

Don't choose styles that have narrowly cut arms, necklines, tight inflexible waistlines, legs (like jeans can have) or anything that is too form fitting. etc. These are very uncomfortable, itchy and can cut off circulation.

Do choose pants, shorts and skirts which have some elastic at the back but which button and zip in the front.

Do choose jeans with the 'stretch' label. These look just like regular jeans but they are cotton blended with a spandex or Lycra component. These jeans are labeled 'stretch' and are very comfortable. They feature the tailored fit of other denim.
Do choose jeans, like Target's Circo brand which have built in elastic which can be adjusted by pulling it tighter or looser and buttoning it in place on the inner waistband. Nothing shows on the outside.

Do choose clothes that are comfortable and fit well.

Do encourage her to use powder and deodorant to help with perspiration.

Don't dress larger girls in women's styles. Even if you have trouble finding girls clothing for her in her size, don't give her women's styles to wear.

Do check stores like Old Navy for larger sizes of stylish clothing. Even if she can't wear the girls sizes, Old Navy's womens' clothing is cute and fashionable.

Don't go wide, go long on the blouses. The princess or empire waisted blouses( cinched or gathered slightly under the breast area) look very nice on girls with more stomach. V-necked shirts that look like they cross like a robe are very flattering as well.

Do choose blouses, tops, tee-shirts and sweaters that are cut longer, to fit down over a larger tummy or bottom. Fashion Bug (some of which carry girls' clothing) Old Navy, Hollister and most other stores now feature these longer tops.

Don't purchase straight leg jeans or pants for girls who are heavy or who have short legs. Straight leg pants emphasize heavy legs.

Do choose pants, jeans and slacks with fitted thighs and a slight flair at the bottom.

Don't make your child wear longer skirts, below the knee. These look dumpy and out-of-date.

Do choose shirts with hemlines that stop slightly above the knee. The plaid 'school-girl' style is very attractive.

Don't choose mini-skirts. They are not comfortable. Mini-skirts can cause embarrassing situations.

Do select skirts with shorts built in, called skorts. Skorts are available in denim, twill and knits. Many stores now carry them. These are a perfect alternative for skirts. Girls can play comfortably in skorts also.

Don't make your child wear heavy clothing that will overheat them. Avoid velvets, wool and other bulky knits. Even in the winter, schools can be very warm.

Do show your daughter how to layer the clothes and send a jacket or sweater that can be worn in class if necessary.

Do choose soft breathable tee-shirt style fabrics.

Don't buy tights or pantyhose for school. Tights can be itchy, warm and can cause heat rash, especially behind the knees.
Do choose socks in a variety of lengths: knee socks, calf high and anklets so she can learn to choose which will be most comfortable.

Do try the style in which a shorter dress or skirt is worn with leggings that come to the thigh or knee, underneath. I saw a very heavy girl in church wearing this style and she looked wonderful.

Don't wear either flat shoes or very high heels. This is not just for fashion but for comfort and foot, leg and back care.

Do choose footwear with a slight lift in the heel. If the toe is elevated then the heel should be elfoot, legbout an inch or so more. Sketchers are a favorite brand of mine for girls shoes. Sketchers can be found at Meijer, Kohl's and JC. Penney. Payless, Wal-Mart and Meijer in our area sell comfortable reasonably priced girls shoes.

Do choose shoes, sandals and boots labeled 'flex' or 'flexible' sole. If shoes aren't labeled, grasp the shoe in both hands and try to bend it back and forth. A flexible sole will move back and forth freely. These shoes are very comfortable.

Do try to shop in stores with lots of attractive choices in larger sizes. Shopping for an overweight child is painful enough, so try to make it as pleasant as possible.

How to Stylishly Layer Clothes in the Winter

Plummeting temperatures and slews of snowfall demand cozier clothes, but the typical winter outfit involves more shudder-worthy bunching and bulging than chic girls wish to imagine. From donning baggy coats to frumpy boots, it sometimes seems like staying stylish come the first freeze is impossible. But there are plenty of ways to tactfully layer clothes for cute combinations that promise protection from Jack Frost. Curious about how to layer fashionably and fabulously? Follow these steps, gals!

*Choose a comfy camisole: Find at least two staple camis in fun colors to wear over your bra. Ensure that the camis have a little stretch so that they skim your body, but aren't tight. Anything with too much lace or other decorations might show through your next layer, so plainer cuts are usually best. Depending on how cold your environment is you may want to wear more than one at a time, maybe even in varying lengths.

*Search for the perfect tee: Layer a close fitting tee over your camisole. Again, something with some stretch will be the most flattering because you will be wearing at least a couple more layers over it and don't want to appear too bulky. For a trendy look, choose a tee that's slightly shorter than your camisole so that part of the cami peeks out. Aim for winning color combinations, like black & white, bright red & violet, chocolate & forest green, and spunky yellow & orange. If necessary, wear more than one tee.

*Grab a long-sleeve: Next, select a sleek long-sleeve that doesn't bunch or ride up over your bottom layers. The top can have buttons or be buttonless, but the key is to maintain the slimmest profile possible. Keep in mind the neckline of the tee you have on underneath, too. Concealing the bottom tee's neckline is generally prettier than leaving it exposed, especially if you have a thick short neck.

*Snag a vest or tank top: This step is optional, but if you want to be extra snuggly, fetch a sleeveless layer to put over your long-sleeve or your sweater. You can choose a puffy down vest for plenty of insulation or simply slip on a tank top that goes with your bottom layer for added flair.
*Put on a sweater: Unless you're trying to achieve a slouchy artsy look, find a slim-fitting sweater, again keeping in mind the neckline of your bottom layer. Since this will probably be your top layer besides your coat (exceptions for those of you who live in very cold places and may need 2 or even 3 sweaters), make your choice expressive. A hood, interesting pockets, unique buttons, zippers, or a neat design can complete an outfit. And as a side note, if one of your bottom layers has a collar, pull it out and fold it over the sweater's neckline so that it doesn't bunch up and make your collarbone area look puffy under the sweater.

*Find Long Johns: Long Johns should fit well so that they don't bunch up under your pants, but they shouldn't be too tight or else sitting and walking will become painful. Preferably choose a pair in an attractive color or with a tasteful pattern; after all, even if no one else sees them, at least you'll know they're nice. Wear crisp pants (i.e., avoid sweats!) over the Long Johns to look well polished.

*Finish the look: Accessorize with a nice scarf, legwarmers, earmuffs, a hat, gloves, and a coat, depending on the weather and your personal tastes. Also remember that the right jewelry and make-up can punch up even the blandest outfit, so find something that really pops but doesn't clutter the outfit.

Don't let the cold scare you into dressing thirty pounds heavier. Wear multiple layers of slimming fabrics for surefire style. Thankfully winter clothes don't have to be ugly clothes!

Ladies, Winter's Coming: Time to Put Your Clothes Back On

I know you've seen this scenario at least once: Girl in a sweatshirt and a jacket. She's bundled up for winter above the waist. Problem is, she's wearing shorts that do nothing to shield any part of her legs whatsoever.

Whether you're desperate for leg attention or just too lazy to put on a pair of jeans or pants after you're finished at the gym, I think it's time someone told the truth to those girls: winter clothes are just as sexy, if not more so, than their skimpier counterparts.

Scoff if you want to, but Victoria agrees with me.

Take a look at this sexy coat by Victoria's Secret. It's warm. It's fashionable. And it's sexy.

Now, you might be saying, "Well, yes, but that's a coat. What about those ridiculous sweaters?"

I hear ya. Never seen a sexy sweater. Nope. This is definitely not a sexy sweater. Nope. Not at all.

Yeah. It's a sexy sweater. Without showing a drop of cleavage, the cut and style of the sweater still evokes mystery about what lie beneath while giving the impression that the one wearing the sweater knows all about style.

Of course, not all sexy winter clothes have to be sweaters and long coats. And not all of them have to be from Victoria's Secret. Take this tweed jacket by Bebe. You can rarely fail with the retro feel of the 40s and this tweed jacket is all Bacall and Bogart - sexy and stylish.

Right about now you're probably saying, "You've covered the top half, but what about the bottom half?"

Speaking of the dames of the 40s, they knew what they were doing with those tailored slacks. There's nothing that says confidence quite like a great fitting pair of black pants such as this Matte Wool Skinny Pant from Bebe. The great thing about a great fitting pair of pants is that you can show off the shape of the leg while still keeping everything shrouded in mystery.

The other great thing about winter is that you have many more opportunities to accessorize. From hats to scarves, your accessories are simply the icing of a very well decorated cake. This Brandy hat by Helen Kaminski will take any winter ensemble from simply stylish to downright chic.

Then there's probably one of the best things about winter fashion: the boots. You just can't get much sexier than boots. Whether it's a shorter boot like this one by Goor or a knee scraper like this one by Gallivant, there's probably nothing more sexy than a pair of, uh, "notice me" boots. Ehm.

So don't be shy about keeping those clothes on, girls. You'll turn way more heads by looking like the confident style maven than you ever will by looking like the girl who can't keep her clothes on.

Okay, okay. Those girls get a lot of attention, too, but probably not the kind of attention you ultimately want, right?

Christmas Party Games for Kids and Adults

The games you play at Christmas depend a lot upon if there will be children and how old they are. Some parties are just for kids, others are a mix of children and adults. Look through the games here and you'll find some great ones to play at your next Christmas party.

One fun game, mainly for adults, is to re-write Christmas tunes with your own words, then sing them aloud. The one that gets the most laughs wins a prize. Another musical Christmas game is to play a portion of a Christmas song to see who can guess it first. Play just a word or two, at first, and see if anyone guesses correctly. If not, play a couple more words, and so on, until someone guesses correctly.

Still another fun game is to have everyone think of their favorite Christmas song. On the count of three, everyone sings their own song, all at the same time. If you mess up, you stop singing. The one who is still singing at the end of the game, and hasn't messed up, is the winner.

A game that any age can play is the trade-a-present game. Everyone brings a wrapped gift labeled "man" or "woman", or "girl", "boy". Have stickers numbering one through the number of guests you think there'll be. Stick the odd numbers on male presents and even numbers on female presents.

Have a jar full of paper pieces with the same numbering on each of them. Pass the male jar and the female jar, letting each person take a number. Everyone now goes and finds the gift with their number on it. After opening, the real fun begins. Playing peppy Christmas music in the background adds to the fun of this game.

The person who drew number "1" goes to any other guy and takes his present, giving the guy his original present instead. Now the girl who drew number "2" follows suit by walking over to any other girl and taking her present, leaving the original gift with that girl. Follow suit, letting everyone trade gifts, according to the number they drew.
A different way to play this game is to let everyone continue to "take" and "give" the gifts until Christmas music playing ends. At the end of the music each person keeps the last gift they're holding. Still another way is to sit in a circle and play the music. Everyone continues to pass their gift to the left until the music stops. At that point you keep the gift you're holding.

A similar game is played with two decks of cards and some small gifts. Great gifts for adults would be a book of stamps, a $5 bill, an inexpensive wallet or a box of candy. All gifts should be relatively small. Now shuffle two decks of cards well, but separately. Place one deck, face down, on the table and distribute the other cards as evenly as possible, passing them all out. The players hold their cards where they can see them and one player will call the cards that are on the table.

Turn the first card over and call that card. Whoever is holding the identical card, from the other deck, chooses a prize from the table. After all the prizes are distributed, turn over the next card and call it. Everyone should hide the gift they selected behind their back or in their pocket. Whoever has that card can say "stay", which means "keep my prize", or can tell someone else at the table he wants their prize.

The person who does want to trade his prize must remember who drew the prize he wants. For example, after the dealer turns over the next card, and Joe has the matching card, Joe gets to choose who he wants to trade gifts with. Joe says "Sharon, I'll take the $5 bill", and Sharon hands it to him while Joe gives Sharon his original gift.

But, if Joe asks Sharon for the $5 bill and she isn't the one who is holding it, Joe loses his next turn and the card-turning continues. After all cards have been turned the players keep the last gift in their possession.

A fun game for just kids is to let them try to toss Christmas cards into a laundry basket, a few feet away. The cards are difficult to throw and must be hurled just right to land in the basket. The one with the most cards in the basket wins a candy cane, or another prize, for each card he land correctly. Other kids each receive one candy cane for playing.

Have a race to see who can open the most gifts - while wearing gloves, scarf and hat. This is a challenging game and not suitable for very small kids. Teens and adults will love the wrapping game, where you wrap presents with gloves, scarf and mittens on. Or, tie one arm behind your back with red ribbon then see who can wrap the present the fastest using only one hand.
Another game for older kids and adults is to see who can draw the best Christmas picture - while the paper is on their head! Hold a piece of paper on your head with one hand then draw the picture with the other. Everyone votes on whose picture looks the best. Get crazy and put embellishments on the table like glue and sequins, glitter, yarn and buttons. You'll laugh until you cry.

Play a game where each person, as they arrive, is given a piece of paper with a Christmas name on it. It could be "reindeer", "shopper" or "Mrs. Claus". Try not to make them too easy. The person must continue through the party dropping small hints as to who they are. The person assigned "reindeer" doesn't have to crawl around on all fours but can occasionally stamp his foot or give another clue.

A caroler can suddenly burst out in song and sing a few bars of a Christmas carol. The clues shouldn't be too obvious or the game will be over quickly. Towards the end of the night everyone can get a piece of paper and write down who or what they think each person is. The one who guesses the most wins a small gift. This game can be played at a church party, with each person being a Biblical character.

A very unique Christmas party for adults is a pinata party. Most people don't think of pinatas for Christmas but the pinata can be filled with unique gifts for friends. Purchase a Christmas-theme pinata then remove a small section from the top of the pinata. Add small gifts that each person brings, into the pinata, then replace the removed section.

The gifts can be personal items from you, such as gift certificates to your beauty salon, packets of seasonings from your herbal shop, or even small crafts you've made at home. Make sure the items aren't breakable when they fall and are rather small in size.

With all the stress that some people feel during the holiday seasons it's nice to take a little break and enjoy some laughs and fun with your friends and family. There are many games you can play - see if you can invent one of your own.

10 Ways to Get Ahead of Holiday Preparations

The holiday season is hectic. Start early, do and buy a little at a time and spend more time enjoying the season!.

1. Gather up leftover wrapping paper, ribbon, and other supplies in one area. Take an inventory and make a list of what you need - tape, ribbon, cards, stamps, etc. and get those supplies now. Having them on hand means you can save last minute trips to the store - and if it's for a roll of tape seldom do you get out of the store with just the tape. As you get gifts you can wrap them, tag them and they're done!

2. Get an inexpensive notebook (the 5/$1 pocket ones are fine). Outline the candy and baked goods you plan to make and the ingredients you need. What you can get now - DO! If you know every year you make 4 pecan pies, get pecans early, when they're on sale. Don't overlook farmers markets. This gives you the luxury of stocking up a little at a time and of buying when you find things on sale. Waiting until late November usually means paying premium prices - and if you bake quite a bit that can mean a $200+ grocery bill just for baking supplies. Splitting that into several months and buying smarter can mean saving quite a bit of money.

3. Make a list of craft projects the same way. Recently I saw short strings of lights - 25 lights - for $1 on an early sale. These can be used for wonderful easy to make handmade gifts. Get a wide mouthed jar/vase, layer the lights (with the cord end out) with potpourri (also easy to find on sale if you buy at your convenience!) and cover with a bright cloth and ribbon. Plugged into an outlet the light warms the potpourri and is an attractive counter or desk item.

4. Set up small daily chores to save on housework. Get other family members involved - leave the sink clean a night. Cleaning the sink, wiping down the counter and table and sweep the floor takes just a few minutes. Wipe down the bathroom counters and mirror takes a couple more minutes. Get pretty containers on sale to help store things. Think of it this way - three people doing 15 minutes is 45 minutes of cleaning a day. Even children can do small tasks. Something for 15 minutes isn't as bad as an all day cleaning marathon.
5. Address envelopes. If you do a holiday letter you might wait until November but do the rest - then you just need to insert the letter, seal and mail.

6. Go through decorations - make notes of bulbs that need replaced and get extras when you go on the errand trip. Weed out broken ones. If you have grown children and want to cut back on the ornaments gift special ones to each child - an easy way to continue the traditions of home in their new home. Once you get everything checked over consider hanging the lights if you do so on the house. You don't have to turn them on until the holiday season, but hanging them now can save time. When you're up there cleaning the gutters and attending to winter maintenance you can hang the lights at the same time. This saves dragging everything out in a month and means you can put them up when it's clear rather than when there's snow and ice on the way or on the ground.

7. Begin your gifts! If you give baked goods consider baking a couple dozen per week and freezing them. While you're at it bake a few extra to send to a soldier and brighten their time away from home. Did you can things from the garden or other items that can be gifted? Look at creative gift baskets - which can be much cheaper and more personalized than storebought. Make photograph enlargements or other items that can be used for gifts now, before the rush is on. They can be matted, framed and/or wrapped, a gift card put on it and that's *done*! If you do like many do and pick up small items, stocking stuffers, get out the stockings and begin stuffing! There are many things you can find with the luxury of time. The great sale on shirts that are just $4 each - get a couple and wrap them. Only you know that you got them much cheaper than the $20-30 price tag they normally go for!
9. Look through online catalogs and order items for gift giving. For the gardener, for example, there's some great half off (or more) sales at garden sites right now - you get a better gift than you might otherwise be able to afford, and it's ordered in plenty of time to get there. Watch shipping charges and "handling charges" - those can add up some places to make things not such a great bargain.

10. Look at the out of the ordinary outside-the-box thinking for gifts. A bird lover may be delighted to get a few homemade nest boxes for their feathered visitors. Add a $1 bird calender and a packet of sunflower or other seeds (deeply discounted this time of year!) and it's a gift for immediate and all year. Again - thinking ahead can save a lot of money. It can make that $200 budget stretch to give gifts of double or triple that - gifts that everyone will love. Make calendars (personalized - many programs online), Tshirt transfers and other things for one of a kind gifts without the high dollar price tag - and before the rush it's easier to get an hour or so to devote to doing such projects!

The holidays should be a time to reflect, enjoy friends, revel in the season and appreciate what we have. Appreciation is hard to come by when there's a mountain of expenses and tasks that need done! Start now - make it a great holiday season.

How to Accessorize with Diffferent Types of Jeans

Many of us love to wear our favorite pair of jeans. Whether it is our comfortable pair, our classic pair, or our sexy pair ,it is something that we love to exemplify our own uniqueness. This article will help you to put those favorite "fantabulous" jeans into rotation, and also to help accessorize for flavor. So no matter what type of person you are, this article is for all types of jean wearing fashion Divas.

First and foremost, let's identify our different types of styles. We have our lovely classic style which is great for any type of woman. This style is comfortable yet elegant. You can dress this style in so many different ways. Denim has so many different moods, and can be can be freshly expressed when tailored to fit ones needs. First, build this particular look with denim slim jeans. Make sure you feel comfortable, and that you feel good. Some accessories to include are enamel bangle bracelets with different prints or designs. Be creative with it, only you know what your style is. Also try a striped knit sweater or a blazer to add pizzazz. Divas have their own level of divinity. Also look tp accesorize with your signature lipstick and wedged heels to match.

In addition to our classic style of fashion. We all love to look and to feel comfortable. Speaking of which, we have our loose fitting wide leg jeans to fall into this category. You might ask how to accessorize this type of jeans. There are other types of necessities to add to this look to make it look more sporty and flirty. A fun light sporty jacket with lots of color can bring out these jeans along with a layered tank for coloring. This look can be fun in the day or night. You could accessorize with a nice striped V-Neck sweater, and some different colored sunglasses, and matching jewlery can bring out the firtiness. A bold hand bag would top off this particular look with some comfortable simple wedge heeled shoes or some flat boots depending on style. These heels are stylish without worrying about being too dressed up.
Although it seems as though there could not be any more types of styles to dress up, wrong. We have our pop rock and roll look. For this type of style choose a pair of jeans that fits you the way you like to look in dark, black or charcoal jeans. Make sure that the jeans fit as you would want them to. We will then layer these jeans with an edgy tank, vest or leather jacket. A printed tee would also be a great asset to this look. You can go for a skull punk rockfish look or a simple edgy tank. Go for old school retro sunglasses and a leather belt with an awesome buckle to accessorize the look. The true diva may accessorize with silver patent leather stilettos or patent flats.

Last but not least, we have our sexy seductive style. Many people like to call these jeans skinny jeans. These type of jeans help to counter the slim silhouette. Make sure that these jeans feel sexy on you and you feel confident. To help match this wonderful look a nice camisole with lace or confection compliments these jeans. A kimono type of blouse would also look great to help accent the jeans. It is important that you go for the colors that accent you eyes or the colors that you feel look best on you. Look for skin toned sunglasses and clutches to go with your sexy seductive jean apparel. Stiletto shoes with ankle straps our the best choice for these jeans which appear slinky but yet seductive.

In conclusion each category of style is set to appeal to each and every person. It is important that the diva within goes for what feels good for her. If you want to start your day out being elegant and switch to sexy it is now possible because you have the "how to" accessorize with any pair of jean guide. Remember no one can make you look or feel bad unless you give them permission so have fun and shine. These jeans are for everyone and for anybody who is no afraid of doing there own thing.

An Introduction to Finding the Best Jeans for Your Plus Size Figure

A great-fitting pair of jeans is a wardrobe necessity for any modern Fashionista. However, finding the right pair of jeans that flatter and fit your body type can be a bit of a challenge. Since there are so many options you will run across in shopping for the perfect pair of jeans, The Plus Size Fashionista's Guide to Fabulous Dressing is here to help. In the next few articles, you will find several tips on finding the jeans that fit your body type best. Body types usually fall into three categories: Hourglass, Apple, and Pear. In this article, you will find an introduction to getting the perfect jean for a plus size figure, including what to look for, and what to avoid.

First, get familiar with "jeans lingo". This will make searching for the best fitting jeans much easier. Jeans are normally classified by five subcategories: rise, wash, inseam, whiskering, and cut. Rise, the measurement between the crotch of the jean and the waistband, is the first category you want to focus on. The rise of the jean is one of the most important parts of the jeans' fit, and will determine how the jean makes your waist look. As a full figured woman, you want to try to maintain an hourglass shape in your clothing; you always want to try to give the appearance of a well-defined waist, even if you do not have one. Therefore, stay away from ultra-low rise jeans. An ultra-low or low rise jean not only increases the chance of flesh peaking out of the top of the waistband, also called "muffin top", but it also increases the chance of your underwear peaking out as well. These are two major fashion faux pas, and both are unsightly. Also, make sure that the waistband of the jean is not cutting into your flesh. This will create annoying bulges in your overall bodyline. The waistband of the jean should fit comfortably, and if it is cutting into your skin, the jean is probably too small. Jeans with a rise that sits at the waist or just below the waist are very flattering to plus size figures, so look for mid or high-rise jeans.
Next, look at the wash of the jean. The wash is simply the color of the jean. Looking at a jeans' wash can be daunting because, as you will see while you are shopping, there are many jean washes to choose from. Although finding the best, most flattering jean wash is a matter of opinion, in general, darker washes are more flattering for plus size figures than lighter washes. Try to avoid jeans that are faded at the thigh or hip. This will give the appearance of a bulkier upper leg, and that is not what you want.

After finding the wash that you like, it is important to choose the right inseam. The inseam of jean is the measurement down the inside seam of the jean, from crotch to hem. The hem of your jean should hit the bottom of the heel of your shoe, so length is very important. Wearing jeans that are not long enough tends to ruin the leg lengthening, slimming effect that a jean can have. Remember, it is much easier that have your jeans hemmed or roll them up than to try to add fabric to the bottom of the jean. Do not be afraid to buy jeans that may be a bit too long; fixing that problem is easy.

Whiskering is not always a category involved in your jean purchase, however, this design technique is a very popular one, so you may encounter jeans with whiskering while you shop. Whiskering is a design technique that gives jeans that worn-in appearance. Remember that your jeans should create a slimming effect, so whiskering that draws the eye outward is a problem. This will make you appear wider.

Lastly, you want to inspect the cut of the jean. This is probably the most important part of your jean search. The cut of the jean will tell you how the jeans will fit your legs. For fuller figures, fitted jeans are more flattering, but be careful here. Try to avoid tapered jeans, jeans with a relaxed thigh that narrow at the ankles. Tapered jeans are made to enhance curves, so for fuller figures, there will be a widening effect. Also, stay away from baggy style; they will just make you look bigger. Jeans with straight, boot cut, or flared legs are the most flattering for plus size women.

How to Find the Right Pair of Jeans, If You're a Guy

What does it take to be a man? A good pair of jeans, of course!

In all seriousness, it can be extremely difficult for [heterosexual] men nowadays to find a pair of jeans that conveys the right message. Guys don't want to be too flashy... but they don't want to be too dull either. They just want to dress up, with no worries. Apparently not too many guys nowadays worry about looking gay with their jeans, and I'm here to correct that. Not only is this a how-to regarding finding the right pair of jeans, it's also a how-to for guys to find themselves.

The first step in this how-to is avoiding trends. Guys shouldn't be looking at what Dane Cook is wearing or, God forbid, what country singers are wearing. Forget that Hollywood look; guys shouldn't spend the rest of their lives watching TV and emulating B.S. celebrities. Rather, they should be thinking for themselves.

This also takes care of a lot of the overpriced brands, coincidentally. Big name clothing knows how people think in regards to celeb-emulation, and they price their clothing accordingly. This doesn't necessarily mean that guys shouldn't spend a good amount of money on clothing; buying clothes isn't about grabbing the cheapest pair off the rack. Instead, pay for a good fitting pair of jeans-- it's worth it.

How should a pair of jeans fit? It's easy: straight. Guys are only as straight as their cut of jeans. Boot cuts, while still acceptable, walk a thin line between gay and straight. Not only do they actually fit on only a slight minority of American men, but when they do they still give a curvaceous silhouette. In fact, they look like bellbottoms sometimes too. Rarely does a pair of bootcut jeans work out and, given the look that spans time (the straight up and down look), it's a better bet for guys to just go with a pair of straight-cut jeans, unless they want to show off their hips.

The most important aspect of the straight-cut jean relates to the shoe that is being worn underneath it. If the ankle opening is too large, the cuffs of the jeans will drag on the ground and eventually ruin the jeans. With small leg openings, the length of the jean doesn't matter, and a tapered pair of jeans can look very good if done properly. Overall, it's about proportion and, depending on the size of the guy, the legs of the jeans will vary in tightness.

Which brings up the next attribute: where are these jeans being worn? Is the guy going to a rodeo, or a rap concert? It's difficult to wear a pair of jeans that's too tight or too baggy without looking like a total buffoon.

This is where the crotch comes in. Guys shouldn't chase a pair of jeans that makes a spectacle out of their junk-- it can be embarrassing at times, if not all the time. But, more importantly, there needs to be room to breathe in those jeans! Bottom line: guys will never impress any ladies while sporting a cardboard corner for a crotch.

For that matter, what else are you carrying? Did you know they have jeans you can carry shotguns and six packs of beer in?
At least keep room for your keys, your wallet, and your cell phone in your mens' jeans.

Another thing to keep in mind: where will you be wearing these jeans? You're not going to bring a shotgun or a six pack to church are you? It's common knowledge by now that guys can wear a good pair of jeans to a formal event, but it should be a straight fit, with a good pair of shoes, and a tapered ankle, and, WITH A DARK WASH. The dark wash can give a trouser look and, unless they're rodeo jeans, can look very intelligent.

So we've got cut, comfort, and wash thus far... but there is one other factor worth mentioning: timelessness. Before buying a pair of jeans, one must ask himself 'How long will these last?' In terms of longevity, it's hard not to mention rigid jeans because it takes roughly a year before they are broken in-- as opposed to pre-broken, pre-holed jeans that are readily available from any clothing outlet, on or offline. Rigid jeans are also very consistent in their look, and will naturally mold to one's body shape after a short period of washing.

So, that's it; buying jeans can be more complicated than simply running to the store! Hopefully this guide will aide men to not waste their money on meaningless trends and spoiled looks. But it will cost money, so every guy should be prepared to spend.

The most important aspect of the straight-cut jean relates to the shoe that is being worn underneath it. If the ankle opening is too large, the cuffs of the jeans will drag on the ground and eventually ruin the jeans. With small leg openings, the length of the jean doesn't matter, and a tapered pair of jeans can look very good if done properly. Overall, it's about proportion and, depending on the size of the guy, the legs of the jeans will vary in tightness.

Which brings up the next attribute: where are these jeans being worn? Is the guy going to a rodeo, or a rap concert? It's difficult to wear a pair of jeans that's too tight or too baggy without looking like a totally buffoon.

This is where the crotch comes in. Guys shouldn't chase a pair of jeans that makes a spectacle out of their junk-- it can be embarrassing at times, if not all the time. But, more importantly, there needs to be room to breathe in those jeans! Bottom line: guys will never impress any ladies while sporting a cardboard corner for a crotch.

For that matter, what else are you carrying? Did you know they have jeans you can carry shotguns and six packs of beer in?
At least keep room for your keys, your wallet, and your cell phone in your mens jeans.

Another thing to keep in mind: where will you be wearing these jeans? You're not going to bring a shotgun or a six pack to church are you? It's common knowledge by now that guys can wear a good pair of jeans to a formal event, but it should be a straight fit, with a good pair of shoes, and a tapered ankle, and, WITH A DARK WASH. The dark wash can give a trouser look and, unless they're rodeo jeans, can look very intelligent.

So we've got cut, comfort, and wash thus far... but there is one other factor worth mentioning: timelessness. Before buying a pair of jeans, one must ask himself 'How long will these last?' In terms of longevity, it's hard not to mention rigid jeans because it takes roughly a year before they are broken in-- as opposed to pre-broken, pre-holed jeans that are readily available from any clothing outlet, on or offline. Rigid jeans are also very consistent in their look, and will naturally mold to one's body shape after a short period of washing.

So, that's it; buying jeans can be more complicated than simply running to the store! Hopefully this guide will aide men to not waste their money on meaningless trends and spoiled looks. But it will cost money, so every guy should be prepared to spend.

How to Find the Best Pair of Vintage Jeans: Fit is Everything

Shopping for authentic vintage jeans is worth the hunt. Shopping to find the best vintage jeans does take some time and planning. Shop wisely to quickly find a fabulous pair to add to your collection. Here are 3 tips to help lead you to the perfect pair of vintage jeans.

Vintage Jeans

While shopping locally for vintage jeans, know what you are looking for. When you browse garage sales, thrift stores, and organized resale shops, keep your eyes open. While you are browsing the racks look for the seaming on each pair of pants. Look at the grommets on the pockets, zipper, and any exterior and inner name brand label. Keep your eyes open for any jeans that are obviosly not new, were the label may have been cut out. The grommets on the jeans may be a different tone than modern jeans. The tone may be a bright copper or even a dull gray. If there is a name brand that you love, look for it. If you are not familiar with name brands look for Levi's, Lacoste, Guess, Gloria Vanderbilt, Wrangler, Z. Cavaicci, Jordache, St. Tropez, and Dolce Gabbana.

Vintage Sizes

Vintage jeans are not vanity sized. If you wear a ladies size 4 or 6 you probably will not be able to wear a true vintage size 4. Ignore the size that is listed on the label. Always try on the pants, or keep your tape measure with you. Know your waist, hip, and inseam measurement before shopping. Keep these measurements with you on an index card or piece of paper in your purse or wallet. If you do happen to find the perfect pair of vintage jeans but it is the wrong size, there is hope. Contact your local tailor to have the jeans tailored to fit your body. If the pants are too short turn the hemline over to see if there is additional fabric. After purchasing, take the pants immediately to your tailor.

Wear
Pair your vintage blue jeans with your favorite vintage tee shirt. Wear sexy heels or boots to highlight the look of your vintage jeans. Wash your vintage blue jeans on delicate in a detergent that does not fade fabrics. Or you can send the vintage jeans to the dry cleaners. When you find the perfect pair of vintage blue jeans you will know it. Look for modern pieces to mix and match with your new vintage find. If you are in doubt about how to wear the vintage jeans, this will help. Wear a solid white blouse or tee shirt. Women can wear a great stretch belt or skinny belt if your top is long. Shorter tops can be worn and tucked in with a fabulous belt worn through the belt loops. Men can wear a collared shirt, tee, thin sweater, or blazer with vintage jeans to bring the look together.

There are endless outfit possibilities to show off your new vintage jeans. Cleanse your jeans with care to keep them looking their best. Take all fabulous jeans with slight problems immediately to your tailor. Wear your vintage jeans often, to share your fabulous style with everyone. Use these tips to add a few nice pieces to your vintage wardrobe.

Men and Women Are Different, but in What Sense?

To the differences in human types we must add those between the sexes. Man and woman are basically different, far more so than they believe. This is why they both have such great difficulty in understanding on another and such threat need of one another for their growth. I will go so far as to say that never can a man completely understand a woman, nor a woman a man.

For example, man has a theoretical mind while woman has a more person-centered mind. Sometimes when I am speaking on a general matter with my wife, discussing two conflicting ideas, she will ask me right out, "who are you talking about?" I was not speaking about anyone. I was developing an idea. Yet my wife felt the need of identifying tat idea with something concrete, with some person. A woman thinks of people, and in terms of people. Take a look, for contrast's sake, at men as they gather together for a game of cards or a cup of coffee. They expound magnificent theories on the way the world should be governed and how universal peace and brotherhood can be achieved. These theories are quite abstract, detached, and unrelated to the immediate situation. If one of the wives were there, she would laugh and say, "you'll be better helping me dry the dishes or taking an interest in your son and his learning difficulties, instead of leaving me with all the worry of seeing th psychologists and teacher in order to get help for him/" thus I is from woman and under her influence that man can acquire a feeling for persons. Civilization built by men alone would remain abstract, cold, technical, and dehumanized.

A woman thinks in detail, also. Details interest her more than general ideas. She has a need to tell all the day's happenings, once she is with her husband. She has to tell which hat a friend was wearing, what kind of coat was worn by another, what the janitor or the store clerk told her and how she replied. Soon the husband is listening very distractedly because he has not understood that his wife is so made that details are of great importance to her. To him, all this appears very small and dull. When the wife senses that her husband no longer is listening to her, that he is reading in the newspaper about the world's great problems, she feels terribly alone. And alone, she will plunge ever more deeply into details which for her ever gain in importance...gossip, neighborhood jealousies, and the comparison of various stores prices.

Proper Fur Care: Be Kind to Your Fur Coat

An investment in a fur coat is an investment in style, glamour, and beauty. Few other articles of clothing make as strong a statement about the wearer, or convey such a perfect mix of power and femininity. A fur coat is a valuable item, and with only a little work and careful steps taken, one can insure that their fur coat is well taken care of, providing years of beauty. I learned these steps through personal ownership of furs, and from exchanges with others.

First, consider how you will care for your fur coat at home. A fur coat in a closet needs three things: darkness, coolness, and plenty of space. Long exposure to light will fade your fur coat, heat will dry out the pelts, and being jammed and crammed in among many other garments or items will prevent air circulation, which dries out the pelts even further, and causes unsightly matting and scruffing. With these things in mind, choose a closet that is out of sunlight, not near heating vents, and which has plenty of room for the fur coat. Make sure to use a large, padded coat hanger with your fur coat.

Avoid exposing your fur coat to chemicals. This includes perfumes and hairsprays, in addition to items like mothballs and cigarette smoke. These items can give your fur coat a permanent odor, which may require professional treatment to remove.

Exposure to a little snow or rain will not hurt your fur coat. To care for your fur coat properly after wearing it in the snow, for example, simply shake it gently and hang it up to dry in a room with good air circulation, away from heat vents. Do not use a blow dryer on your fur coat! If you want to brush your fur coat, do so with your hands only.

Choosing the Right Winter Coat for Your Body Shape

Temperatures are starting to drop and it's time to start thinking about getting a new winter coat for the coming winter season. While there are many cute and stylish winter coats on the markets not all of them look great on every body type. By choosing a coat that works with your shape you can accentuate your positives, minimize your negatives and look hot even when the temperatures are cold.

Pear shaped bodies are one of the most common body types for women. If you have a pear shaped body your bottom half is heavier than your upper half and you may tend to carry your weight your hips or thighs rather than in your belly or upper half.

If you have a pear shaped body consider choosing a winter coat with details at the top in the shoulder area that make it look wider such as a fur collar. A coat that is wider at the shoulders will help to balance out your hips and make your body look more balanced. Double breasted coats that are fitted at the waist also work very well for pear shaped bodies since they add a little bit of volume to the top and accentuate your narrowest point, which is at your waist.

If you have a rectangular body or a "boy" body, you will want to look for a coat that implies that you have curves even if you don't. Try getting a double breasted coat which will help to add volume to the upper half of your body. Also look for coats with pocket flaps on the bottom which can help to emphasize your hips and make them look curvier. A double breasted princess coat is also a great option for you since it is fitted through the waist and then flares out over the hips to help make you look curvier.

If you are petite avoid buying a long or bulky winter coat since it can easily overwhelm your body. Instead, look for a coat that is at most 3/4 length and that fits your very well through so you aren't swimming in it. Keep in mind that you can get coats altered for a reasonable amount so that they actually fit your body if you can't find anything that sits quite right on your smaller frame.

How to Choose a Coat for Winter Weather

As the days become shorter and the cold winter winds begin to blow, you're going to want to bring your winter coat out of hiding. If your current coat selections have seen better days, it may be time to shop for a new one. Choosing a quality winter coat is an important decision since you'll be wearing it frequently during the months when temperatures dip below freezing. Plus, a stylish winter coat can pull together an outfit as well as hide the sweat clothing you've put on for a quick trip to the grocery store. Here's what to keep in mind when choosing a coat:

Choose a coat for warmth

If you live in an area where temperatures frequently drop below freezing, you're going to want to choose a winter coat with good insulation. If you're looking more for functionality rather than fashion, a goose-down coat may be your best choice. Goose-down coats have become much more stylish in the last few years. Plus, they offer the ultimate protection against the elements. If you live in a cold area and want a coat you can wear to work, you may want to consider investing in a cashmere or camel hair coat which will provide both warmth and style.

Choose your coat size carefully.

If you live in a cold area, you'll probably be layering your winter clothing to give provide insulation from the elements. When choosing a coat, you may want to select a size larger to accommodate the extra clothing you'll be wearing underneath. If you're trying on winter coats on a warmer day, you may get a false impression of fit if you're dressed lightly. When in doubt, go up a size.

Consider your color options.

If you can't afford to have multiple winter coats, it's best to opt for a black or neutral shade of coat so it will coordinate with most items in your wardrobe. If you choose a coat in a bright shade, you may be restricted as to what you can wear it with and where you can wear it.